By Lillian Williams
Game changers are people who transform things. They improve a business or a community. They lay the foundation for others.
In today’s social media parlance, they’re called influencers.
In that spirit, I’d like to recognize three special women who influenced my life: Mrs. Dorothy K. Jones, Mrs. Mamie L. Page, and Mrs. Inez E. Hale. I am grateful that our paths crossed.
All three women lived in or near East St. Louis, a Mississippi river town in southern Illinois, where I grew up. They lived through the Great Depression, World War II, and the 20th century civil rights movement. Their stories, their struggles, their stamina, make them game changers.
The three were born between 1916 and 1925. Dorothy Jones was a public school teacher in East St. Louis for 35 years until her retirement in 1985. Inez Hale was a devoted member of Parks Chapel A.M.E., and Mamie Page worked at the LaBelle dress shop in East St. Louis for many years.
All three outlived their husbands, and all three died within a year of each other.
You won’t find their names in history books, or engraved in fancy marble memorials. But you will find their spirits etched in the hearts of younger generations who grew up in southern Illinois.
Like so many uncelebrated Americans, these women supported their communities in myriad ways. They quietly provided the platform for others to succeed.
What character traits marked these women? Let me share a few of their special qualities:
Mrs. Mamie L. Page
Hard Work/Volunteerism. Mrs. Mamie Page was born in 1924 in Scooba, Miss., during the era of legally-sanctioned racial segregation. Like so many other African-Americans during that time, she migrated North in search of greater opportunity. In East St. Louis, she and her husband, Frank “Jessie” Page, found work, made friends, and raised a son. But when I attended her funeral, I was struck by something else—her long record of volunteer work. Not only did Mrs. Page work to support her own family, but she found time to volunteer at St. Mary’s hospital, for more than 35 years. As noted in her obituary, the hospital gift shop was renamed Mamie’s Café in her honor. But her volunteer work didn’t stop at the hospital. Every July 4th she and other women (including my mother) would sell beverages on the Mississippi riverfront to raise money for the local police and fire departments.
Generosity. Mrs. Dorothy Jones was born in 1925 in East St. Louis. She attended public schools there; received a bachelor’s degree from Lincoln University in Jefferson City, Mo., and a master’s degree from University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. Though busy as a local public school teacher, she found time to give in additional ways. One day she shared with me a printed program of a church-sponsored concert that raised money for student scholarships. For 25 years she had served as president of the committee that raised the scholarship money. The program noted that at least 250 students had received scholarships over the years. But she was active in other organizations noted for service too-the local chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority and the East St. Louis Women’s Club.
Mrs. Inez E. Hale
Humility. Mrs. Inez Hale was born in rural Ward, Alabama, in 1916. She married my grandmother’s cousin. After moving to East St. Louis, she became an active member of the Parks Chapel A.M.E. church in Centreville, Ill. Though she lacked formal degrees, she was educated in so many other ways. When I would drop by her home, she would give me a hug and a bright smile. But what I remember the most about Mrs. Hale was her calm, reassuring spirit. In my mind, she had a stillness about her that bordered on majesty. I observed another of her crown jewels: She was quick to honor other people. She would recall their good deeds. She recognized the best in others. After she died , a friend wrote a touching message in an online guestbook: “We were truly blessed to have been taught by the best.”
These women trend high on my list of social influencers.
It’s your turn. What values characterize your own life? What values do you admire in others? What organizations, or persons, make a difference in your community, your way of life?